Saturday, November 8, 2008

My 12-year old friend

Because I'm such a kid at heart I became the ultimate BFF (Best Friend for Life) of a twelve year old girl named Aegerine Kern. She's the only daughter of our landlady. She's half German if I may say so and is a few inches smaller than me. In time I know that'll change. Anyway, she's really sweet, though her stubbornness often sends people flying off the wall, I just smile at her. Aside from myself, Aegerine's one misunderstood girl. She freaks out people with her Sarah Geronimo style of singing while eating at the dining table, she bullies you back when you offend her, she doesn't eat a lot, she dances anywhere, she looks at you intriguingly and appraisingly like what most fashionistas call the "Manhattan Onceover", she talks a lot of non-sense and she bitches you around.

Oh whatever, this is a twelve year old kid who became so dear to me after about a few months of moving in. I can't exactly remember how but I think it all started when I was invited to watch zombie movies in their room after eating dinner. She started saying things like
"You look familiar...", "You look like someone I know...", "You're cute..." , "You don't look like your age..." , "You're...", "You...". Basically that's when the friendship started.

Going back to Aegerine. Today, I just want to share with you something she shared with me. She's just like any other teenage girls we all know. She poses sweetly for the camera. She ties her hair in pig tails. She braids her hair. She takes a daily dose of Vitamin-C (according to her mom). She has a crush on one of her classmates named Jeffrey. She wants to be a celebrity, a singer most definitely. She wants to grow up fast. Her mp3 player only plays one song and that is This is Me from a Disney Channel show which was sung by a girl whom I have never heard of and her favorite The Jonas Brothers (eek!). She gossips. She lies. She makes other babies cry. She plays badminton in the street. She wears pink skirts. And she loves her mom and dad.

One of my most memorable experiences with Aegerine is when she's was left alone in their house. Her mother is a treasurer of Dating Daan and her dad was out on an exploration that time(I'm not sure about this though). She asked me to stay with her and watch movies. We watched White Chicks and guffawed with laughter all over the place. She learned to mimic the line that one of the cloned white chicks said when they arrived at the hotel. She'd say,
"Credit card? I.D.? I am so freakin' pissed." Ha-ha-ha. I had loved that movie ever since.

I will share with you one of the things that Aegerine is most fond of. Japanese boys. Yeah. Well, this is her favorite band as of now and I learned to like it after she sang it to me the second time around. Watch it and have fun the way a twelve year old girl does.

Tegomasu - Ai Ai Gasa


Friday, November 7, 2008

It Started and Ended With A Kiss

Ok. I know this sounds really, really, really (really, really, repeat till fade) corny, but I figured this is what really happened between Vince and Me. It started with a kiss.


October 26, The After-Party


Vince celebrated his 22nd birthday at a pub somewhere in Xavier Ville. Really cool place for me since it was my first time there, they were the usuals so I was kind of like turning my head everywhere. Nothing important transpired that night except for (what I was told) the time they started teasing Vince and me to get together. I thought whatever because I was drunk and could hardly remember a thing! Anyway, the after-party is what made both ends meet. Ahem.

Morning of Sunday, October 26, I woke up 9am and went downstairs after a booze-beaten sleep. As I can recall I saw Vince lying on the floor a magazine in one hand with the equally booze-beaten two-some Che and Nix. I thought of joining them so I dived in, beside Vince. I rolled over the carpet and must have probably landed on top of his body that’s why I ended up curling inside his enclosed arms. I didn’t like the feeling of my back on him so I turned around and faced him. As I inch closer the more I could feel how manly he is amidst the bushy long hair, the soft chinky eyes, and the lustfully thin lips. I say nothing beats my drunken eye. Anyway, so I felt the urge to put my arms around him, the goddess that he is to me, and feel his body. Oh heaven's sake, I don't know what I'm doing b he just feels so right! My God, how can you have made me such an idiot to not notice this when we were in college, hmm? Back to reality, the more I made my arm linger on top of his waist (or somewhere there) the more immense was I at the thought that what was happening between me and my imagination is utterly unaccepted. All of a sudden he was inching closer too. His arm was somewhere on top of my torso and in seconds we were wrapped in an embrace! Hooray! Ahem. Sorry.

So there, wrapped in an embrace. Oh God, that felt so wonderful. I could stay there forever! I closed my eyes and duck down somewhere on top of his chest. It didn’t felt right. So I tossed my chin up. Suddenly the heavenly intervention occurred, we kissed!

Love at First Kiss

I could not believe it. The moment our lips touched there was already love. *blushing* Ok. I might have been exaggerating this thing between Vince and me, but I just think that’s how it all came to be. It wasn’t just a smooch; it was a perfect kiss, a lips-to-lips contact, and a body to soul relation kind of thing. So what more do you want me to ask for?

Two Weeks Ago

They say that everyday, you get little surprises. Two weeks ago I got the biggest surprise of my life. I received an email from a college friend. It was just like the typical how are you? messages you get from old friends you haven’t seen in years.

Weeks before I’ve already been retracing myself. After Riannes' death (r.i.p.) I was already looking out for all the friends I had before when I suddenly came across this email. I felt a sudden interest to re-connect that looking at this email and pressing the reply button almost made me fly.

I asked to be reunited to my two college best friends, Che and Eunice. I asked this from the sender, Vince. I was so happy he was interacting with me that I had already forgotten if I really do know him and if he does know me too. To be honest, I only know him by face, he-he-he. Well, I was an academic-devotee in college and he was the peers-oriented type, you know, are paths never crossed, unless of course I hang out. But yes, I do know him from my friends. We have lots of common friends by the way. Anyway, so there we were, after a series of emails through Friendster we exchanged YM addresses and thus, the new found friendship began.

Vince came in totally unexpected. He was a total sweetheart right from the start. When I explained to him that I was treating my eating disorder he was more than, or somewhat, concerned. We became textmates and I informed him of how much I suffered eating just soup, crackers and fruits all day for a week. He became my confidante. The best part of it all is that we were enjoying ourselves. Little did I notice that he's starting to become my new best friend. I realized I was already half asking about my old friends. All day that we would be chatting or texting each other, he never failed to amuse me. He was making me happy. He can completely divert a mindset of a serious IT copywriter to a childlike cracker. We became really close.

It Ended with a Kiss

When I realized that I had to answer his question with only a yes and a no, I froze. I couldn’t believe this will ever happen. When he was cupping my face with his two hands, lying on the carpeted floor of my best friends’ house, face to face, asking me that open-ended-heart-tearing-seriously-the-end-of-friendship question, I nearly died.

I had said yes and he kissed me back. It ended with a kiss. By it means being just friends. After a series of stoned silence and kisses filled conversation we are now an official couple. Him, mine… I, his.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

The Curious Incident With the Vanilla Sky

You know the times when you first open your eyes in the morning, stretch out a little, look out the window, see the morning sky and feel the world full of life again? Yeah. That's my most favorite time of the day. The moment reality would hit me I would just look outside the window and check out my most favorite thing in the world God has ever created. The Vanilla Skies.

I like taking things easy I have to say. That is why out of all the things that could make a person happy and content, all I need is a place to sit and admire the view of the sky. Add a picturesque beach on the side and I'm done. He-he.

But I hate the cloud outside my window today. There are gray clouds I see that may cause me to drag an umbrella going out. So I hopped out of bed. Armed with a basket full of toiletries I went straight to the bathroom and bathe. I wasn't thinking about how much I've scrubbed my skin or washed my hair off, I was mindful of the sky outside. At exactly fifteen minutes I was done. I immediately put on whatever article of clothing I got my hands on and went running downstairs to meet Vanilla Sky.

Vanilla wasn't there. It was Gray. Damn it, no! Sadly I went back upstairs and hastily grabbed the black umbrella on top of chest board. I went downstairs again and out into the morning sky of Gray. There she is. Peeking out of little open space between clouds of Gray I saw her. The Vanilla Sky. She would not let go, I thought to myself.

I kept my umbrella unopened and walked cheerfully to work. Above and beyond my imagination Vanilla is smiling back.

Friday, October 31, 2008

Fact or Fiction?

Full Name: Arlyn Arcenas Descalsote
Nicknames: Ayn, Ayin, Yin, Lyn, Alyson, Arte-sta, Twin, Kid, Neng, Chidang
Single or Taken: Taken
Gender: Female
Birthday: 16th of June
Sign: Gemini
Siblings: 1 sis and 1 brother
Eye colour: Hazel Brown (my doctor says so)
Shoe size: 5
Height: 5ft
What are you wearing?..my favorite jag and a plain blue shirt
Where do you live? Makati
Righty or lefty: both

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Relationships
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How many very close friends? 14 (record breaking) and I had to count some more he-he
Do you have a BF or GF? BF. Yesss…

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Fashion Stuff
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Your favorite place to shop: Fornerina – when affordable (Clothing) Sari-Sari or Regatta and Whatever, Jag (Pants), Barbizon (Undies), The Face Shop (Cosmetics),
Do you have any tattoos or piercings? not yet
Colour: Black and Blue
Number:11
Boys Names that u like: Louise
Girls Names that u like: Erika
Subject in school: Literature
Animal: doggies!
Drink: Coke, Coffee, and Mango Juice
Food: Anything Spicy
Months: January-May-June-December
Song at the moment: Bad Girl – Usher
Movie: Penelope
Fav Qoute: Be glad of life because it gives you the chance to love, to work, to play, and to look up at the stars.
Breakfast: 2 slices of bread with peanut butter and a cup of coffee with cream
Cologne/Perfume: Johnson’s & Johnson’s Baby Cologne Spring Bouquet
Favorite cartoon character: Danny Phantom as of the moment

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Have you ever....
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Given anyone a bath? haha....
Smoked? yep unfortunately
Bungee Jumped? nope which is sad
Been skinny dipping? no...
Been in the opposite sex's washroom? yep
Eaten a dog biscuit? no
Loved someone so much it made you cry? Yep...
Would u cry if u were in love? Yep...
Been in a physical fight? Yep..
Been in a police car? Nope!
Came close to dying? no
Been in a sauna? Yep
Been in a hot tub? YEP!!
Fallen asleep in school? yep
Broken someone's heart? Many times
Cried when someone died? Yep
Flashed someone? Nope I have dignity!
Fell off your chair? Jesus, of Course!
Sat by the phone all night? Yes
Saved MSN conversations? Yep ha-ha
Saved e-mails? Yeah. I’m lazy
Been cheated on? Yep
Had Chicken pox? Yep
Had Sore Throat? Yep!
Believe in love at first sight? yeah actually
Liked picnics? yep
Liked school? yep

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Would you…
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Eaten a live hamster for $1,000,000? NO!!!!
Go to a Hanson concert if you had a free ticket? Yeah!!!
Who was the last person you touched? Zel
Who was the last person you massaged? Vince….waaahhhh
Who was the last person you yelled at? Chor
Who was the last person who broke your heart? The Singaporean marketing boss who didn’t like the last video I created.
Who was the last person who told you they loved you? Tin
Who is your loudest friend? Kaiye

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Do you/Are you…
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Do you like filling these out? When I’m bored and have nothing to write on my blog.
Do you wear contacts or glasses? used to wear glasses but my eyes were able to adjust fine with the laptop radiation.
Do you do drugs? No
Have piercings below the waist? Nope!
Stolen anything over $50? No
Anorexic? I have a tendency to be one.
Depressed? Just last night
Suicidal? Eh nope!

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Final questions
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What are you listening to right now? Bad Girl – Usher, Sam’s Town – The Killers, Are You Gonna Be My Girl – Jet, Hella Good – No Doubt, Jump Madonna, Nothing’s Gonna Change my love for you – Westlife
What did you do yesterday? Worked on article submission and went out with a couple of friends.

Hated someone in your family? Nope I love them all!
Got any awards? Yeah, a gold medal for Music Quiz Bee and a 2nd Runner up title for a college beauty pageant (oohhh revealing)
How many remote controls are in your house? One
Are you double jointed? Nope
What do you dream about? That I had finished my book in time for Christmas.
Last time you showered? Last night
Last time you took a bath? Just this morning
The last movie you saw at the theater? The Dark Knight
Scary or happy endings? Happy!!
Root beer or Dr.Pepper? Root beer
Mud or Jell-O wrestling? MUD..
Vanilla or chocolate Ice cream? Vanilla
Summer or winter? Summer
Silver or Gold? Silver
Diamond or pearl? Pearl
Sunset or Sunrise? Sunrise

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Call Me

Rule: List all the names you were called by and the people who call you that. Tag at least 10 members of your contacts and give a comment on their site for them to know they've been tagged.



I may not be in the mood to do anything in my computer today other than browsing I am not obsessed! But after reading KC's blog (or rather C's, as what I would like to call her hehe) I suddenly found myself brewing a fresh cup of coffee with cream and relaxing to my chair ready to strike the keys.

Ok. To start-off . I haven't been called many names. So what I have listed are just names i recall being called by the special people who had been part of my life. Terms of endearments were omitted for legal purposes.

So here we go...



Ayin - As I am most commonly called my friends and family who are close to me. This name started from my Grandfather in my mothers' side. He's half Chinese and could hardly pronounce words that have the letter "r" in it. So thus my sisters nickname, Puyin.

Ayn – This is a shorter (and flirtier) version of abovementioned nickname. I used this when I worked for Chili’s Grill and Bar at the age of 16 for a summer job. I toyed with my reason telling them that this is pronounced like the “Ein” in Einstein. Thus began the “WTF?” stares.

Alyson – My American name. I used this for almost three (3) years in my previous job as an account manager. I got used to being called this name day and night, in and out.

Aly – Shit! I hate to remember being called this name. No girl wants to be named after a boxing legend! Oh heck. Call me Al instead, will you? That’s much better.

Lyn – This sounds, to a certain extent, serious to me. So stop it. Stop calling me this…hideousness suffix.

Ay – C? This is for you. I think we’re just too lazy to add more syllables to our already shortened nicknames.

Lhing – Only one man calls me this. And he’s a bloody policeman for God’s sake!

Kid – This name gives me no justice at all. I mean, Jee, we need to discuss this. Seriously.

Twin – You know when you were young and people thinks that your BFF (which was Che during that time) is your sister because you’re always together and you’re almost alike in so many ways? Ok. I need not to explain further.

Chidang – Hahaha! This is the most hilarious name I’ve ever heard someone call me. Well, you’ll only hear my cousins calling me this.

Neng – I used to hate this but when Ate Rosie (my cousin) started playing with this name I just got used to it. But just because I have accepted the fact that this is what my cousin calls me doesn’t mean I can appreciate nor tolerate anyone calling me this.

Ms. D – Okay so this is just very recent. As I rushed my self in to the nearest Hospital yesterday I acquired a new moniker. Ms. D. That’s my last names’ initial actually. Well, I just thought that the secretary got tired of saying (and spelling) my name every time they call me. If it were not for the expectant look of the people around like saying “Ms. D? As in Dina Bonnevie?” it felt good, you know.

So that's about it. Again, sorry, I'm so not in the mood.